Being Single Is Kinda... Friggin Awesome!

[Mariruri.]

and he looks 12 and the girl looks like a cake face.

[Gail Michell [Bombshell]]

i prefer being single because i have issues of letting myself connect with my significant other. not out of disrespect for them or anything. its just i have connected completely with someone and i wound up hurt. so i'm just too jaded and cynical to repeat that.
right now im not single but thats pretty rare of me.
when i do get into a relationship its usually for a while. [5-6 months seems to be my most constant number]

[unisaurusrex]

heh, pretty much XD
i eard she was talking all sorts of crap about me,
and i've never met her before,
but that's those typical kinds of girls, i suppose

[Mariruri.]

Don't give her the satisfaction to care? Don't say anything to her or to anyone else, it starts useless high school drama.

[unisaurusrex]

i never did,
was like, "what? oh, muffins? i prefer the blueberry ones" XD

[Snow_Storm]

Hmm, the kid's a bass guitar player. Those guys tend to have the egos because they're underrated and don't get the chicks (No offense to any bass players here, I'm just joshin' around.)
Anyway, that girl your ex is with seems like she's trying to start crap for no reason despite you never met before. Ignore it. She wants to fight, rather pyhsical or verbal. Don't fall for it.

[kgods]

I have trust issues in general, everyone around me has lied to me in a ridiculous way at some point. My parents, relatives, friends etc. So yeah to say I have a hard time "opening up" is an understatement. I suppose it's also why I'm so misanthropic sometimes. YAY! LIFE!

[Mariruri.]

Angst angst angst.

Because of my first relationship I have trouble with certain stuff. Such as I think males are better then females still, though everyone thinks it's wrong for me to think that. I can't help it.

[kgods]

Another thing, maybe I'm too nice or something, perhaps I should think and act like a douchebag, seems to work for jerks I know. (note: I am kidding)

[Mariruri.]

Just don't try to look and some one will come to you.

[kgods]

That method hasn't worked so far. I guess being shy doesn't help either; a neurosis from childhood I have yet to fix... in fact going to this con is in part a bit of challenge to myself in this regard.

[Mariruri.]

You'll definitely open up at the con. It's hard not to! I wouldn't mind making friends with you there.

[Gail Michell [Bombshell]]

baby steps kgods.
u'll over come ur shyness eventually

[Snow_Storm]

Copypasta Quote Time! Let's see what I can do to help out

(Snow_Storm Therapist Session The Therapist is in. $.50 per session. Disclaimer: Snow_Storm is not a real therapist and his advice is as useful as using paper to save your life during a flood.)

(Just to lighten up the mood here)

Another thing, maybe I'm too nice or something, perhaps I should think and act like a douchebag, seems to work for jerks I know. (note: I am kidding)

I'm telling you right now: There's nothing wrong with being nice. However, you shouldn't be too nice to the point you're a push over and being used. Acting like a douchebag or a jerk will only get you far and at the end, you will hurt yourself.

Just don't try to look and some one will come to you.

Indeed. The best relationships, hell, the best friendships and connections usually come from not even looking. If you look for any type of relationship, doesn't matter from freinds or a romantic one, it'll be obvious. Friendship and relationship are sparked by having many things in common, respect, and such. The obvious friendship from this forums is the fact we all love anime and video games. A lot, and I mean a whole *****in d**n lot of friendship and relationships are created via the anime fanbase community are because of cons and such.

That method hasn't worked so far. I guess being shy doesn't help either; a neurosis from childhood I have yet to fix... in fact going to this con is in part a bit of challenge to myself in this regard.

You'll definitely open up at the con. It's hard not to! I wouldn't mind making friends with you there.

baby steps kgods.
u'll over come ur shyness eventually

Kgods, I'm a shy fellow myself. While I have been more social with my peers and at school within the last two years, I still have problems overcoming my shyness. While I have learn to rel, there are times when I can't say what I wanna say is because I close up in a little shell and get clam up. I'm still fighting this, man. The way I've been able to connect with a lot of folks at my school is through me playing the violin and connecting with those who like music. AAlso, connecting with the gamers and anime fans also have help my shyness, a lot.

Coming to this con man, it's gonna help you out, a lot.

[kgods]

Thanx Storm

I'm a bit older than you, but obviously you are old enough to remember Peanuts.