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Post by Mimiako on Mar 1, 2009 1:46:12 GMT -5
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Post by Moppet on Mar 1, 2009 1:52:57 GMT -5
Crazy people these days... >_> and I don't find this silly at all
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Post by Knight Link on Mar 1, 2009 1:57:48 GMT -5
wow <_< thats crazy.... well all i got to say is do not let this happen here and do not let your good friends go somewhere alone with strangers.
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Post by Lina on Mar 1, 2009 2:04:29 GMT -5
Oh! I know this story. Apparently the 40 year old is her lover and they were going to a bunch of cons. O:
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Post by Mimiako on Mar 1, 2009 2:07:48 GMT -5
XD; Thats like the uncomfirmed one, all they know by facts was that he would send her sexual messages, apparently she may of messaged back. They don't know since they only have her phone. They also RPed a lot, and he was a family friend.
Then one day she told her friensd she was going to a con with a family friend, and later that day she was gone, and so was he. There is even a picture of him in cosplay.
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Post by rinoaheartilly32 on Mar 1, 2009 2:09:47 GMT -5
Wow, that is insane! I can't believe that some kids willing go with these creepy people, shows it is hard to trust some people even if you've known them for a long time.
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Post by Lina on Mar 1, 2009 2:22:21 GMT -5
XD; Thats like the uncomfirmed one, all they know by facts was that he would send her sexual messages, apparently she may of messaged back. They don't know since they only have her phone. They also RPed a lot, and he was a family friend. Then one day she told her friensd she was going to a con with a family friend, and later that day she was gone, and so was he. There is even a picture of him in cosplay. I read the unconfirmed one on this website. I forgot what it was called.
I really hope she is ok. Though if anything happens to her it is kinda her fault. I do not want to sound like a cruel person, but she brought it upon herself IF she was WILLINGLY going with him.
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Post by Mimiako on Mar 1, 2009 2:25:43 GMT -5
I know. ><; I wish people would be more mindful.
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Post by Lina on Mar 1, 2009 2:31:20 GMT -5
-nods- I do too. D;
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Post by newcastleepl on Mar 1, 2009 18:55:42 GMT -5
Even IF she "WILLINGLY" went with him and literally said "Yes, I love you, I want to go with you. Please take me." She DID NOT bring it on herself. She is 14 years old. He is 40. Teenagers are easily manipulated. It is pretty easy to get them to do anything, especially if you know them and know their insecurities. He is 40 years old. He knows what he's doing, probably has dealt with people enough to know how to at least minimally get people to do what he wants.
In addition to this, how do we know how the girl was raised and he mental state? If her parents never taught her to be aware of these kind of things, how should she know? Plus, we do know this guy was a family friend and probably knew personal things about her that he could use to his advantage.
SHE DID NOT BRING IT ON HERSELF
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Post by Mimiako on Mar 1, 2009 19:51:22 GMT -5
I'm not saying it is 100% her fault. I simply was stating my opinion from past expieriences.
I do admit however, I am assuming things aswell, so if she didn't go with him willingly I apologize, right now we don't know all the facts. I do still hope for her safety of course, cause it obviously IS a case of the guy taking advantage of her, right now though, we don't know if its simply a runaway case or a kidnapping. As time goes on, I hope they find her or they find out more. Most likely, if he IS taking her to a con, it'll be to Anime Expo? It is the most well known in California.
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Post by saraht3hpixie on Mar 1, 2009 20:04:27 GMT -5
Seriously, wtf?! Anime is not to blame. The f*cked up family is.
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Post by Judai Yuki on Mar 1, 2009 22:56:41 GMT -5
People like this give us a bad name
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Post by Hime-sama on Mar 1, 2009 23:31:18 GMT -5
I've seen other cases like this before and it does scare me that things like this... well, exist.
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Post by thescarletrose on Mar 2, 2009 0:08:12 GMT -5
I don't think that she brought it on herself, since a 40 year old has no business talking to a 14 year old girl behind her mother's back. Secondly, things like that scare me a bit too. It's depressing that someone is using anime as an excuse to exploit a child. It's sickos like that that give honest anime fans a bad name.
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